Momma always said two wrongs don’t make a right.
There was a post on an expat social group where a guy was posting that he wished that people wouldn’t call him Chinese because he is actually from Korea. He was stating that it was annoying that everywhere he seemed to go he would have people try and talk to him or label him to get a reaction. People reacted to his post saying that he should just get used to it and that they didn’t mean any harm. Other people said if he didn’t like it he should go back “home”. A few people chimed in saying they also get called names labelling them as a certain race whether accurate or not they either said they didn’t care or it was annoying. Another expat then made her own post about this particular persons post saying that she was concerned that no one seems to care about racism and that only those people belonging to that nation could do something about it. But she also got a lot of resistance and people saying it wasn’t racism. That it is very minor compared to all the other things in history done to Africans.
So my mind went through a few questions.
What is racism? Can you define it or does a dictionary define it? Meaning can racism be something that makes you feel uncomfortable, ashamed, angry, sad, defensive etc.? Is racism the right word? If someone is labeling you and it is true do you still have the right to be offended.
If I was a minority in the situation does that make it worse? Is labelling okay? If someone means no harm from the word they use to call you does it make it okay?
Is it okay to sometimes correct them, or ignore them?
All I know is that it is never okay to let someone else’s actions consume you, allow you to lose control, to act in a way that is out of your character, harbor hate, or retaliate in anger.
All over the world people were created in the image of God. Genesis 1:27. No matter your nationality, outward appearance or even the condition of your heart; God loves you, has a plan for you and created you.
Matthew 22:37-39 …“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
The problem we face as a nation is that some people still do not understand the first, as they do not love the Lord; thus making it hard to love others. We need to do our part and show them what that LOVE looks like.